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On Hearing Gloria Steinem Speak…

22 May

From YWCA Interim Executive Director Barbara Benisch:

Yesterday I attended the Community Foundation of Western North Carolina’s 8th Annual Power of the Purse luncheon. The speaker was Gloria Steinem, an icon and leader of the feminist movement and efforts to create equality and justice for women and people of color and all economic levels. She was inspiring to me and I wanted to share a few quotes that I found powerful.

According to Gloria, equal pay for women would reduce the number of people living in poverty by half – completely changing the economic conditions of individuals, families and whole communities by putting more money in the hands of those who need it and who will spend it locally.

She talked about using our checkbooks for change – “How you spend your money reflects your values”.

“Remember that everything you do matters and behave accordingly – because everything and anything could matter to someone and you don’t know in advance what makes a difference.”

“Change is like a tree, it grows from the roots up.”

“The voting booth is the one place on earth where we are all equal.”

I feel proud to be part of the YWCA with our mission (eliminating racism and empowering women) and focus on racial and economic justice and support for women and families!

YWCA New Choices Mother2Mother Group

14 May

The YWCA New Choices program is structured to assist our participants to move toward the essential components of stability so that they can become more economically self-sufficient. Through our intake process, participants create their own action plans with both short term and long term goals to move toward earning a greater income. Career counseling, advocacy, and resource referral are all key components of this  program. Participants have a review at least every six months to assess and set new goals.

The mother2mother/woman2woman group provides community and options for women facing education, parenting and economic struggles. This group meets at the YWCA on Tuesdays from 10-12 pm. Drop-in Child care, peer to peer support and coffee offered during this meeting.

Sessions are as follows:
1. Discovering Yourself ~ Core Values
2. Feminine Beauty ~ Building Self Esteem
3. Healthy Living, Moving More
4. 101Technology
5. Positive Language & Parental Skills
6. Getting your finances “OnTrack”
7. Reaching your Financial Goals
8. Searching for meaningful career skills
9. Ready to Launch ~ Job Search

A group recently graduated from mother2mother/woman2woman.

Here’s what one participant had to say about her experience: “New Choices means the world to me. As I felt defeated, the YWCA instilled in me not to let go of my hope. New Choices has taken me by the hand and encouraged me to press on and move forward and not to give up. With Mother2Mother I can hold onto my hope and turn things around for a better life.”

 Another stated: “New Choices has been a wonderful experience for me. The resources are great, and every time I leave the group I walk away learning something new. Keep up the good work!”

FutureVision Campus Crawl

16 Apr

Report from Katie Clayton, YWCA FutureVision High School Coordinator:

On the outside I was all smiles and enthusiasm. But here is a snippet of what was going on in my head at 7 a.m. on April 3: I packed my camera. I’ve got my shoes. Emergency numbers…check. WHERE’S THE FUTUREVISION CELL PHONE?? Oh, it’s in my hand. Got my backpack with the first aid kit, directions, and itinerary. My suitcase. WHERE IS MY SUITCASE?? Oh, someone already packed it on the mini bus.

Planning a 2 night/3 day college tour trip for 10 high school students, I’d found out, was a little stressful! Since this is the final year of FutureVision, and thus our final Campus Crawl trip, I wanted to go out with a bang, and so off to Wilmington, NC we went!

Four hours into our journey, our first stop was UNC Pembroke, the smallest school in the UNC system, with around 6,000 students. First on our to-do list: Lunch in the cafeteria. Students ate the essential foods necessary for survival during the college years: pizza and french fries. At UNC Pembroke there is more than meets the eye, as the school’s art program is expanding, and they have a small bowling alley in their student activity center! One student liked UNCP so much, she bought herself a UNCP lanyard and keychain.

Back on the road we went: 2 hours until we reached our final destination, Wrightsville Beach! Once we got settled into our rooms we gazed at the view before us and took in the sights of the sound and waterway. It was that perfect time of day where afternoon and evening meet and the setting golden sun makes everything it touches look like a hazy dream. Before going out to a late dinner at Wild Wing Café, we all walked out to the beach, which was on the other side of the hotel from us, and greeted the sea. Everyone was all smiles as we dipped our toes in the water. For a few, the excitement was too much and they decided to take a dip in their clothes! It was the perfect end to a long day on the road.

Day two started with an amazing buffet breakfast in the hotel’s restaurant. French toast, pancakes, breakfast burritos, eggs, bacon, sausage, potatoes, grits, fruit, homemade yogurt. I think we all tried a little bit of everything. With our bellies full, we headed to UNC Wilmington. With 13,000 students, UNCW offers an array of degrees ranging from Film Studies to Nursing to International Relations. On top of all that, the campus was beautiful and was filled with students biking and skateboarding to class! Several FutureVision students loved the campus and commented that they could easily see themselves there for college, which is always a great thing to hear.

After lunch in the dining hall (more pizza and fries!), it was time to enjoy Wilmington and our access to the beach. Initially, the plan was to tour the Battleship. That was clearly a silly plan, though, because all 10 students said they’d rather go to the mall. After a quick tour of the mall, it was off to the beach! Students rented boogie boards from the hotel and boogie boarded their hearts out.

After beach time, we spent some more time on the water, but this time we took a sunset cruise on the sound and intercoastal waterway and learned about all the surrounding islands and wildlife. We finished up the day with a delicious dinner at Ruby Tuesday and then headed back to the hotel and crashed for the night—we’d had a busy day!

Day 3 was spent on the bus cruising down I-40W heading back to the mountains. It was a great time to reflect on a fun and educational trip. From seeing the student’s reactions to the schools to seeing them play on the beach (for a few of them, it was their fist beach trip!) to seeing them laugh and get to know each other better, the fourth and final Campus Crawl trip was a success.

*Name changed.

FutureVision Success

7 Mar

Meet Brianna*, a participant in the YW’s FutureVision teen program. Now a high school sophomore, Brianna began her involvement with FutureVision as a troubled sixth grader who was quick to act out, quick to speak before thinking, and prone to giving into anger. Through her involvement with the YWCA, Brianna has matured into a young woman who is devoted to her school work, volunteers in YW Child Care, and sets a positive example for the other students in the program.

“I have known two Briannas,” remarks Katie, the FutureVision High School coordinator. “One Brianna would act on anger and negative feelings. The Brianna I have seen grow and develop through high school will now communicate about her problems and process her feelings before acting.” When talking about a problem she is facing, Brianna admits, “The old me would want to fight. The old me would not want to be the bigger person. But now I think about my actions. I think about how they will affect my future, and I know fighting will only hurt me in the end.”

A place where Brianna has truly had a chance to blossom is in volunteering in the YWCA’s Child Care Center. She has a passion for working with babies and toddlers. Brianna knows each child by name, and her face lights up when she sees one of “her babies” with their parents in the hallway or lobby of the YWCA. Wanda Harris, Director of Child Care, is thankful for a volunteer like Brianna and said, “She’s real dependable. She does anything that’s asked of her and will take initiative to go above and beyond. She’s become part of our family.”

The change that has taken place in Brianna over the course of several years is truly inspiring. The YWCA has opened doors for her that she may have never thought to open and peek through. Volunteering in the Child Care Center has instilled a sense of responsibility and ownership of her life, while the FutureVision program has encouraged her in her academics by providing homework help, tutors, and mentors. We are excited to see the path that Brianna takes in the future, and all that she will accomplish in her life.

 

*Not her real name. Story by Jewel Tavener. Photo by Ami Worthen.

Another Happy Club W Member

28 Dec

Here is a nice message from one of our satisfied members:

“I’ve been a member of the YWCA of Asheville’s Club W for many years – and I can’t imagine working out anyplace else! It feels like an old friend, walking through those doors, and I love the swim program, the gym, and
all the ways the YW is connected to our community around issues that matter.

One of the highlights for me at the YW  is working out there once a week with personal trainer and wellness coach, Michael Scholtz. Michael is an amazingly intuitive trainer who challenges me in ways that support me rather than intimidate me. He is an even more amazing wellness coach along with his business partner, Greg Hottinger–they are clear, honest, transparent, and wise. I can’t wait for their new book, Coach Yourself Thin, and their series of webinars. I’ll be there to learn, laugh, and be challenged to rethink my definitions of wellness!

Thanks to the YWCA for all it does!”

- Patti

Kind Words About Our Last Health Fair

8 Dec

Last month the YWCA and Mission Hospital hosted a Health Fair at the YWCA which provided free health screenings and information to 159 people. Here is a sweet note we received from one of those people:

I am so grateful for the Health Fair you sponsored last Saturday. The Health Screen was so inclusive and the Mission’s Medical Staff was so courteous and professional.

I have been uninsured for several years so the opportunity was a huge relief. I’m happy to report my numbers were good and I felt a surge of well-being and gratitude. It was good to feel responsible again.

I have been a member of the YWCA for years and truly value my membership. I look forward to other health related events.

Thank you so much for this Health Fair.

Sincerely,

KJ

New Choices Success Story

21 Nov

We are very happy to share this letter with you:

My name is Gabriela Volkomer and I am writing this letter to let you know how grateful I am for the support I received from the YWCA New Choices program during my job search.

I am Mexican and I am a naturalized U.S. Citizen. I am married and I have 2 children. My family and I moved to Asheville a year ago. I spent months looking for a job with no luck. Some of the barriers I faced during my job search were related to the fact that I was a female and part of a minority group looking for a job during a major financial crisis where unemployment rates were rising week after week. Also, I was discouraged and frustrated because I wasn’t able to go to job interviews since it was hard not having family or friends who could help me with my kids.

All of this changed when I learned about the YWCA Drop-In Child Care through Job Link services. Once I contacted the YWCA my life started to turn around. Thanks to the support I received from the New Choices Drop-In Child Care I was able to attend a series of job search workshops and I learned how to build my resume, how to network, and how to do well in a job interview. Thanks to the Drop-In Child Care I went to several interviews and got some job offers.

Now I am currently employed at Pisgah Legal Services, a non-profit organization that provides legal assistance to low income people that need assistance with housing, disability, consumer law, Medicaid, etc. I work at the Domestic Violence Unit which helps victims of domestic violence obtain protective orders from the court. I am a bilingual court advocate for the Domestic Violence Unit at Pisgah Legal Services.

Once of the the things I enjoy most about my job is the feeling of knowing that I am helping people, that our services are having a positive impact in the life of our clients. I realize that this is all possible because of the support I received from the YWCA during my job search. Now I have a job that gives me the opportunity to give back and to help people to change their lives.

Thank you so much for having such wonderful programs like Drop-In Child Care and for all of the support you provide to the community.

******

Many thanks to Gabriela for sharing her story. If you would like to make a donation to support the YWCA’s Drop-In Child Care program, click here.

FutureVision and LEAF in Schools & Streets

19 Oct

Yesterday Darrell Rose and Kurt Patterson, instructors with LEAF in Schools & Streets, taught African drumming to participants in the YWCA FutureVision afterschool program. The group prepared for a Sunday morning performance at LEAF (the Lake Eden Arts Festival). More photos on our Facebook page.

Salsa Salud y Sabor

6 Oct

From YWCA Preventive Health Director Alphie Rodriguez:

We just finished the the final report for Salsa Salud y Sabor, the Latino program we did in collaboration with UNCA. Below is a quote that made me happy.

“Claro que me gustaría. Para mí es muy importante todo esto que nos están regalando yo pienso que es un regalo de dios que nos pongan a estas personas en nuestro camino porque yo siento en otras partes como latina hemos sentido el racismo y aquí  nunca jamás he sentido.”

Translation:
“Of course, I like it. For me it is very important all that they are giving us. I think it is a gift from God that these people are on our path because I feel that in other places, as Latinas, we have experienced racism, but here, never have I felt it.”

Good Sportsmanship Vs. The Gold Medal – a Race Story

29 Sep

By Rachel Blattner, YWCA Preventive Health Fitness Counselor 

Training was behind me and the day of the race quickly approached, as did the hurricane creeping up the coastline of the northeast. It was a beautiful cool day in the mountains of WNC. The lake was still, and the rolling terrain was filled with hundreds of racers. I felt the gentle mist of the morning dew, as I approached the sight where I would set out to achieve a goal I set for myself two years ago;  to compete in a lake triathlon. Hurriedly, I ran to the start of the race at the tip of the shore. Having never swam in a lake race before; I was expecting the worse. I waded in the water, to begin the swim with 50 or some odd other female swimmers. At the screech of the horn, I walked a few feet and began a slow, steady swim.  About 200 meters in, to my dismay, I was falling short of breath, and my strides were lessening in length. Putting my face in the water only made matters worse. So I opt for the breast stroke. Realizing, the swimmers around me were picking up their pace, so it seemed, but I had to make this work for me.

Immediately, I shifted my focus. There was a big yellow blob, known as the buoy in the middle of the open water. From that moment on, that became my point of reference. At the turn of the first buoy, I couldn’t help but fixate my mind on the road ride to come. I was anxious to get out of the water. I propelled into second gear. All the while, I was conscious of the swimmers around me, since they too were fighting just as hard to get ahead.

 Exiting the ramp, I yanked off my swim cap and goggles and sprinted for the transition to the bike. I had laid out my things in such a way; it would have been easy enough even a child could navigate. My shoes were already clipped in, and all I had to do was hop on and stick each of my feet in. Since I read in an article,  this was as an easy transition from swim to bike. But last minute, I panicked, could this be a penalty? So I unclipped and stuck my foot in as I normally would. Quickly, I ran to the mounting area and hopped on the bike.

I had left my shifters in a low gear, ready to climb the first hill. Remembering the words of a co-worker, “the bull at the top is your saving grace”.  So I climbed, huffing and puffing.  I passed a few riders, but one, an Athena. She kept a strong cadence the entire climb. For the remainder of the climb, that was my aim; to keep my pedal strokes fast and change gears when necessary.

It was smooth sailing for the first five miles, and I enjoyed every minute of it. As the dawn of the day disappeared, and the clouds moved in, sunlight came through. The riders in view had a few hundred feet up on me. I was inspired to keep pushing forward, knowing that my energy came in spurts and it was only a matter of time before I’d catch up with them.

Mile 7 was stagnant and momentum was fleeing from under me. My mind was wandering, and no longer on my ride.  I thought about the other competitors around me. Painting, sweat, and hard earned miles set us apart from the rest of humanity. It is why we receive the title; Triathlete. As an athlete in a race, you don’t face obstacles, you experience them. Your obstacles become the obstacles of the racers around you, and that’s what makes us more alike, than different.

I started to chuckle as the endorphins kicked in. I used this to my advantage, strutting ahead to mingle, just as I would if I were out on a casual ride with friends. I began conversing with a male rider, who seemed as fired up about the ride as I was. He remarked, “you again?”  

Two miles out, I swept across the distance as Aladdin on a magic carpet ride. Full speed ahead, I came to the transition area for the last time today. I dismounted my bike, and followed the cones to run out to the 5k course.

“Where did my legs go?!?” I blurted out as I raced past the first runner. He smiled and wished me good luck at finding them. I couldn’t help but joke the rest of the way to the end of the course. I was squirming to find the last bit of energy to go on, and it seemed to take the agony away, momentarily.

At 2 miles out, in the corner of my eye a petite women, similar to my height, was sprinting past me. She was in my age group. The competitor in me eagerly wanted to spring full force ahead, but I lost sight of her. I told myself, I was doing the best I could.

Normally, I’d never stop to walk,  yet circling the final water station, I did. I poured water on my sweaty self and continued to run again. It seemed to help. A few seconds later, anther woman caught up with me, as I could hear her stride. I looked at her and panting, told her that she was the inspiration I needed to finish. She said “I was hers”. We kept each other’s pace for the remainder of the run. At that moment, as fatigue as I was, I managed to recite a verse I adopted as my own; “they shall run and not grow weary”. Ish 40:31

Speedily, I spotted the finish line, giving whatever I had left. With the sand from the beach on the bottom of my sore feet, and salty sweat dripping from the pores of my face, I leaped for joy. A crowd of spectators cheered and congratulated each finisher. I was delighted to know that I achieved my goal time set for myself, overall finishing in 1:41:00, placing 2nd in my age group.
 
I came out to the race, hoping to finish. I took away a reward; a very valuable lesson. Personally, I would rather receive an award for good sportsmanship over the gold any day. It was a great accomplishment and I think I had the most fun out of everybody.

“A goal is created three times. First as a mental picture. Second, when written down to  add clarity and dimension. And third, when you take action towards its achievement.” – Gary Ryan Blair

A special thank you for making this race all the more worth while – My YWCA family, you are my biggest cheerleaders!

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